The Insecurity.

Good Afternoon Kay,.. Afternoon are official, read it carefully...

- Kay, you know 'our own failures are our biggest insecurities..', and its a sink, you will pull everything with you in it, including your relations.. A thing we can do all, is not to get affected by every small petty thing,. nor should get raged coz its will make things even worse., "even the scope of retrieval,.. can be lost due to rage". Sir told it right "Human is nothing more than a pile of mistakes,.. but what he forgot, is we learn and never repeat them".. But if we understand, why we have made.., "We stop making them, so often"..

- Remember this kay there is very fine line between,,.. they "saying it insecurely" like.. I want to talk to you, pls.. and you accepting it.., & if you don't hold them, in their insecurity, they will be lost and broken.., you know even the "worst words/spots on character" they put can we removed, if there is someone to hold you up against it..

- See Kay a major reason for us to look into relation,. is to find someone who will hold us, against our insecurities,.. weather be it friendship or love...  In Relations, one should be strong enough, to hold the other in their insecurities, and breakdown,.. & without letting their insecurities to affect me, under any circumstance.. As we will pass this moderate gracefully.. (not every time, as they  should be  known its imp to fight also, you supporting them always, will make them weak eventually..)

-A question I can ask from myself.. feeling insecure, too insecure.. about what? ask this.. and you will loose half of it and rest half can be lost by understanding the situation.. BE a one, to be on your side,, in the worst.. & don't be that super hero build over the insecurity of others.. as insecurity spreads fast. like a wild fire.. 

- Kay, its very. "easy to manipulate or fool you, in your insecurities" and you won't even notice it, at the time.. Kay don't trust, anyone blindly, under beyond moderate situations.. and raise the red flag in your brain asap.. if you notice something spooky, coz these flags, help you to weigh someone, whom I can trust in that situation.. 

- And final, insecurities makes us venerable.. and being in that sate against a stranger, is not good at all.. but being in that state, with someone whom I trust, love and feel secure with..,, can be very healing, if you don't have them,. you will become rigid, even more rigid, until finally, you break apart...