The Sweet Fights.. ?

 Good Evening Kay..., the most out of love thing, In love are its inevitable fights.

- From small,, cute fights, and getting angry..( M gussa hu ) to I know she is not going to leave me now..😅, The most feared thing we do in love is fight, both of us are terrified, to hurt each other's emotions,,,  but that's not the worst of it its not,,, rather not working on our downside, which they don't seem to like about us, & ultimately raising the cap of humiliations and anger for loved one, getting better in hurting and breaking other ?. Just some stuff kay, why to be soo stupid, to hurt my koo for this..? Let it be. Its ok.

- Koo I know,,.. you. not always feel good, sometimes you to suffer and it hurts when you seems to be bule, so suddenly, & worst is not sorry for it... I am also not the best in every case, most of time it's my fault, and you happily come & and forgive me, that's best about you, when I beg you. The point is,,. mistake is not her's or mine, its what we perceived to do in the moment, and if other felt bad or broken, Beg for forgiveness, if they love they will... 

- If we are not sorry, other feel bad,,. does she care..? She knows.... that I hated and still she hasn't changed, nor is she sorry, this scratches "Rahiman Dhagha" for first, but it heals itself with care & love but became weak without it, this is how, "? mark" comes to occur., and we some-how ignore it.. both of us, and this starts to build up, whose fault? both, this starts to turn cold.. and we start to scratch each other and our "string of love" & its not infinite. If too many ties, it's just a lump... 

-Kay never choose to love those who are not on my balance, like they are not of my age, or don't want to love me, or with them I just felt the click, instantly... and remember kay,,.. if not the time then we should not.. people of 40-50, do a thing called situation-ship where the people don't connect emotionally, they connect according to their need.. maybe sometime people of my age also do.., see if we are not able to talk emotionally, to least understood emotion no one can save us from Titanic.. 

- Always listen what they speak, understand,.. & why they want to ? & finally what's the motive behind their such,. and are they correct ?..   before we understand the fight,,.. lets listen each word of this song,,, you will have some practice of what I meant to say "understand and listen" its "Barsane Wali Radhe" whole 45 min, you will appetite "love", I bet, nor you would you have thought of love this before, Go now.. What do you understand kay? now think why, would I have asked you to listen it, why a devotional song, if you think deep... you will understand that wherever he goes in his words and thoughts, he always speak one word "Radhe"........ Do you understand, had you done same, every time, wherever you have gone to? " Love if not devotional, is mere physical attraction, or greedy", accept it and stop hiding before it, drowning the name of "love". Now if you  this then kudos and listen to this "Kishori kuch esa intejam ho jye" if possible with her, receding her's name instead. You will understand the tip of ice-burg, of what love is..

Lastly sometime fights are imp, that's how we improve and learn in relations, that's how we know our drawbacks, but one should not accept or change blindly, question.. and the worst is to get in their personal space, respect it,,,  don't hurt, it will grow,.. hold each other in anger, close or be the one silent, who listen, let them finish,, who knows its a thing they wanted to speak, humans have strange desires,,..